SUCCESS IS NOT JOURNEY IT'S A DESTINATION

Each one of us want high happiness index, peace of mind, mature character and success in life but most of us do not really strive to achieve these goals. Out of us who struggle for their goals a very few are able to make things happen. The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is the difference between the level of Inner Power both the categories posses in their brains and the level of Power they exert to achieve what they want to achieve. In my opinion, the Inner Powers consist of following seven categories and the intellectuals who possess all these mental muscles can accomplish a great deal of victories in most of the fields of life: 1-The Power of Focus: There is a story which tells that during the bird shooting session, the instructor asked each shooter what he is looking at. One candidate said, I am looking at the flock of birds, another said, I am looking at the tree where birds are about to sit however one shooter said that I am looking in the eyes of one of the flying birds ! This is the power of focus I want to draw your attention towards. Focus means to insert all of your energies on one goal and do not let any obstacles change your attention. Remember, you see problems when you move your eyes away from your target. Don't let your mind distracted from your goal. Don't let impure thoughts spoil your plans. Remember, what you focus on increases so don't let the seeds of negativity get nourished in your brain. Use Zoom-In and Zoom-Out tool to strengthen your Power of Focus. 2-The Power of Vision: A fast pace horse running in the wrong direction will never reach its destination. Instead it will cause misleading ripple effect to its followers too. Building the Power of Vision starts with your thinking style, awareness about your field, your comprehension capabilities and your caliber to imagine the future. A) Your thoughts are the seeds for your character because thoughts give birth to actions which become your habits and constitutes towards your personality and consequently your destiny. Empowering your thought process involves staying away from negative thoughts, trying being part of the solutions instead of problems with less criticism and more optimism. B) Awareness: Empowering your awareness level involves a lot of reading, meeting with high potency people, watching relevant documentaries and observing people in the industry. Make habit of reading great magazines and watching news daily to improve your vision. Once you develop the Power of Vision, your comprehension levels will be as deep as a sea; your thoughts will fly as high as sky and your strategies will be as solid as rocks. 3-The Power of Now: People make plans people forget plans people fail. Why? They don't execute. They keep thinking and they keep waiting for the 'right' moment to kick off their plans. This 'right' moment never comes if they keep waiting for it. The right moment is now. The best way to make your dreams come true is to wake up and act. This is understood that planning is important. However if you keep wasting your time in the name of planning, you will end up as a failed chap. Break down the big target into smaller tasks and start implementing one by one starting today. Don't waste your time as your idea might get implemented by someone else. You might have more tough circumstances with more complications tomorrow. You might have to bear the burden of additional responsibilities so Now is the time to take action. Now is the time to make difference. Now is the time to make things happen. Remember, your thoughts will not take you anywhere if you don't implement them. So take action Now !!! 4-The Power of Positivity: Successful people posses a positive mindset. To develop this power you must shield yourself from Negativity. Remember that being positive will give you the freedom to look forward instead of looking in past. If you keep wandering in past with negative thoughts you will not be able to proceed with your goals. Positive people are part of solutions not part of problems. Positive people convert risks into opportunity. They have the sense of gratitude. They believe in skills not in luck. If you want to build this power, try staying away from negative souls, make the habit of reading good books, join some nice pages on Facebook or Google Plus, read wisdom quotes and surround yourself in positive people. 5-The Power of Analytics: Being analytical helps in many ways, for example, breaking down bigger problem in to smaller tasks, considering the issue from more wider and multiple angles, evaluating the options from Needs and Wants perspective, differentiating between urgent and important tasks and eventually working on things which matter the most. Whether you want to analyze large data at work, or you want to purchase a new mobile set, Resolving a technical issue or handling a conflict in family or work, analytical skills help you a lot. Read a thorough article Here 6-The Power of Flexibility: Mostly people think the other way around; in fact being flexible doesn't mean being weak instead it portrays your powerful personality trait that you care about others and respect the difference of opinion. It is said: "Better to bend than to break" so the more flexible you are, the more you will be able to manage stress which will strengthen your thought process. Keep your ego aside and listen to the perspective of others. Keep your mental doors open and be flexible in changing your plans. Be adaptable to situations because sometimes U-turn in life are fine to take. Don't get dishearten. Remember, God takes men to deep waters not to drown them but to cleanse them". 7-The Power of 'Implosiveness': Great people are not explosive at all. They are cool at mind and heart. They are not sensitive and reactive in nature. When a tragic situation triggers their anger, they analyze it from logical, sentimental and ethical angles and then respond in order to improve the situation and not vice versa. So you must believe in the fact reactive nature will reduce your friends and increase your foes. Empower your personality with these 7 super powers and gain ultimate heights in life. Remember, success is not a destination, it's a journey. For this journey, there are no escalators so you must take the ladder passage. Which means you have to take step by step approach to reach to the top. If you are in doubt at any stage, just take next small step and notice the consequences. If all fine, go ahead; if something goes wrong, take a step back and re-assess your direction.

LOVING THE WHOLE YOU

It’s February and love is in the air! For many of us this time of year brings forth a deep longing for more romance and intimacy in our lives. As Valentine’s Day is on display almost everywhere you look it is hard not to think about it. Some people feel the love that’s in the air, some choose to ignore it and some go out of their way to boycott it completely. Whether you want to admit it or not, the reality is that we all want to be loved, cherished, understood and cared for, it is part of being human. And for the most part we constantly look to have these feelings fulfilled from other people in our lives. But it never is fully satisfying and never feels like enough. That’s why when Valentine’s Day rolls around; many of us feel the void. The one place where we will find the key to true, long-lasting love is the one place that the most of us aren’t looking…WITHIN. We are all born with the natural ability to love value and appreciate ourselves, and it is time to remember how awesome we already truly are! It’s time we make February the month of SELF-LOVE. If you want more love to flow into your life you need to learn how to turn that valve on within yourself first! LOVE yourself…LOVE everybody….and everybody LOVES you back

JUST LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING

Today is Valentine's Day... a day we celebrate LOVE. So I wanted to take this opportunity to send you a note and say... I LOVE YOU I APPRECIATE YOU And I BELIVE IN YOU. It's true. I really do. LOVE is a funny thing. We love our parents, our kids, our friends and our spouse... ... We say we love chocolate and football and ice cream... ... In fact, we SAY we love a lot of stuff... But what does LOVE really have to do with your life outside of a few special relationships? The answers is... EVERYTHING! See, everything our world is made up of "energy"... kind of like how radio stations operate on a "frequency". The station you "tune into" in your life will determine what kind of "music" plays in your world. Meaning, if your overall vibe is one of groaning, moaning, frustration and complaining you'll only hear "country music" in your world. Just kidding! It's just that most country songs I hear talk about someone losing their job, their wife, their car and their dog all at the same time. ;-) But seriously, if you're constantly stuck in a "low energy" mode where everything you notice and talk about is what's missing, what's wrong, what isn't working and why it likely never will... You will NEVER live the happy, healthy and wealthy lifestyle you crave. So how do you turn it all around? Simple. LOVE. LOVE is the highest "frequency" there is. Love is the answer to all your problems... literally. Because when you bring LOVE to any situation and commit to ONLY bringing love... everything changes... and fast. Don't believe me? Try it. Take any sitation or relationship that's not working in your life right now and bring LOVE to it. Just love. No judgement or criticism or skepticism. LOVE really IS the answer. So today, be sure to tell the people you love... that you love them. And start by looking in the mirror at that magnificent person staring back at you and decide today that you will forever and always love that person. Decide that you will build that person up... speaking only life and success and abundance and joy over the person looking back at you in the mirror.